thumbnail image
broken image
broken image

I Have A Story

About You

  • HOME
  • THEORY
  • PRACTICE
  • PRACTICE PHOTOS
  • EXPERIMENTS
  • StartOver.xyz
  • …  
    • HOME
    • THEORY
    • PRACTICE
    • PRACTICE PHOTOS
    • EXPERIMENTS
    • StartOver.xyz
    broken image
    broken image

    I Have A Story

    About You

    • HOME
    • THEORY
    • PRACTICE
    • PRACTICE PHOTOS
    • EXPERIMENTS
    • StartOver.xyz
    • …  
      • HOME
      • THEORY
      • PRACTICE
      • PRACTICE PHOTOS
      • EXPERIMENTS
      • StartOver.xyz
      broken image
      • broken image
      • THEORY

      • PRACTICE

        FORMAT: In pairs for 30 minutes to 60 minutes, standing in the room.

        PURPOSE: Building matrix to hold more consciousness. Breaking down the wall that

        is our story that stands between two people, in order to create more connection and

        intimacy.

        INTRO/BACKGROUND CONTEXT:

        There are various ways to block connection and intimacy. Creating an unconscious

        story about someone else is one efficient way. Often, we don’t even know that we

        make up story about other people. This process is to make those stories conscious

        and put them on the table.

        PROCEDURE:

        Explain the procedure of the process and make the Map at the same time.

        I Have A Story About You Page 1 out of 2

        This process has 5 steps:

        1. Walk in the room and meet someone, then say “Hello. I have a story about

        you: I feel (mad, sad, scared, glad) that you ...” and tell them the story about

        them.

        Hint 1: It could be that you think that you don’t have a story about the person

        across from you. By saying the magical sentence “I have a story about you…”

        the story will reveal itself to you.

        Hint 2: A story has feeling, be sure that the participants also say the feelings.

        2. Human beings are exceptionally smart creatures. We make a story first and

        then we look for evidence to support our story. The world is so full of evidence

        that anybody can find any evidence to support any story. The second step of

        the process is to reveal the evidence: “... and my evidence to support my story

        are... (you did this, you said this, with this tone of voice, you look like, etc.)”

        3. Why do we make a story about someone? Because there is an unknown, a

        piece of information missing. What feeling do we feel when something is

        unknown? Fear. The third step of the process is to reveal the fear behind the

        story: “... and the fear behind my story is …”

        4. Holding on to a story has a shadow purpose, a benefit that feeds our Gremlin.

        The fourth step of the process is to reveal the pay-off/the benefit you got out

        of holding on to that story: “... and the benefit/payoff for my story is…”

        Hint: The shadow payoff is part of your underworld, this is where you will have

        to look to find it. This is often the hardest part of the process for people who

        do not have the habit of travelling into their underworld.

        5. The fifth step is to ask the person who you are telling the story: “What do you

        think about my story?” The person receiving the story can then tell if the story

        was accurate or not or some part were, other weren’t, what touched them,

        etc...

        Notice in the pictures below how the woman being held has her forehead tucked up into the other woman’s neck. There is skin contact. The two of them have their eyes closed. There is no talking, patting, stroking or rocking. The one woman is simply letting herself be held, and the other woman is simply holding her. While holding, it can make it more comfortable if you brace your elbow on your knee as this woman is doing.

      • EXPERIMENTS

      • StartOver.xyz

        NOTE: This website is a Bubble in the Bubble Map of the free-to-play, massively-multiplayer, online-and-offline, thoughtware-upgrade, matrix-building, personal-transformation, adventure-game called StartOver.xyz. It is a doorway to experiments that upgrade your thoughtware so you can create more possibility. Your knowledge is what you think about. Your thoughtware is what you use to think with. When you change your thoughtware, you go through a liquid state as your mind reorganizes itself. Liquid states can bring up transformational feelings and emotions. By upgrading your thoughtware you build matrix to hold more consciousness and leave behind a life of reactivity. No one can upgrade your thoughtware for you. No one can stop you from upgrading your thoughtware. Our theory is that when we collectively build 1,000,000 new Matrix Points we will change the morphogenetic field of the human race for the better. Please choose responsibly to read this website. Reading this whole website is worth 1 Matrix Point. Doing any of the experiments earns you additional Matrix Points. Please use Matrix Code HOLDINGS.00 to log your Matrix Point for reading this website on StartOver.xyz. Thank you for playing full out!

      Imprint Copyleft Notice Privacy Policy Terms and Conditions

      (Creative Commons BY SA 4.0 International)

      StartOver.xyz

        Cookie Use
        We use cookies to ensure a smooth browsing experience. By continuing we assume you accept the use of cookies.
        Learn More